FR 8/15/09: Blocked by Asian Chick on a Street Bounce

Went to San Francisco to see some of the guys, G-Love, Nightjob, and Juggernaut. Bounced around some bars. Nightjob is new to going out in San Francisco (as am I) so he's asking girls in the streets "where's the party at?". At one point he approaches this Asian girl and this White girl on the street. White chick is a cutie, it didn't look like Albert wanted either one, so I went in for the one I wanted.

I simply roll up and say, hey, what's up?

Albert tells me the situation and I wasn't sure what was going on, but I felt my own state dropping so I decided to do something about it.

I positioned myself next to the which chick, who we shall call HBStreetCutie:

Tommy: You look cute as hell tonight. (Giving 60% eye contact to HBStreetCutie and 40% to Asian friend)
Girls: Thank you!
Tommy: Just moved here from New York, having an awesome time in San Francisco
HBStreetCutie: We are going for cigarettes.

She may have said that, but as far as I am concerned, she is standing there talking to me, so it's basically irrelevant.

Tommy: Huh? (with a look of confusion) No! (with a look of certainty). We are going to the next bar.

I kinda of fucked up with the logistics of this move because I didn't actually know where we were going next. NO MATTER! I turned away from the two girls and held out my hand behind me assuming HBStreetCutie would grab it. Bam! It happens, and we are walking hand in hand down the block.

I also fucked up in working with my wings to manage the group so what happened was as I was walking my chick down the block, and the Asian girl caught up to us and walked with us within 5 seconds. Nightjob and G-Love are behind us, and they eventually pass us as they point out a deli across the street where they are going for cigarettes.

Half way down the block, I change from hand holding to me having my arm around her, she sinks into it. Awesome!

I cross the street to the deli. As I am leading them in, the Asian chick grabs my girl and says "No, we are going to Walgreens" and poof! they are gone..... Fuck...

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Things I did that I had never done:
1) Start walking a girl from the street to a bar (even though I didn't know where this bar I was going to was)

Things I did well:
1) Assume attraction
2) Lead the interaction
3) Kept my girl in the moment

Things I could have done better:
1) Work with my wings better to get both girls
2) Know where I am leading them to

FR 8/14/09: Unintentional Amogging of Some Random Black Guy

My apartment is literally above a stretch of bars and (sorta) clubs. So basically, I can go out really quickly on any given night. Juggernaut was around this particular night and told me he was going to be in my area for a little bit, so I get dressed and stroll over to the bar. Nothing much was going on there and it closed pretty soon after I arrived. On the way to the elevator out of the building, there was this bangin' cutie and her cutie friends. I hesitate, get in the elevator and try to forget about it. As I am walking out of the lobby after I got out of the elevator, I saw the bangin' cutie again. This is for me! I turn to walk back in the lobby, telling the bouncer I forgot something on my way in:

A (Assume, attract, and approach)
As I am walking up, I see this black guy talking to them. He doesn't look like he picked a target, so I am going to assume that the bangin' cutie is mine for the taking.

Tommy: I know I'm interrupting, and I apologize, but you are fuckin' adorable, who are you?
Bangin' Cutie: OMG! Thank you! That is so sweet!

I am still amazed that girls you say are "fuckin _______" think you're sweet.

B (Be in the moment, buying temperature, bantering)
Black guy started making comments about how I'm fuckin with their conversation. My eyes are locked in to my target, my body is locked in on the set, he can't touch me. The other girl is fun, she made some comments about my approach

Cutie's friend: So I'm not hot?
Tommy: I noticed her first. Not that you're not hot, I just happened to see her first.

Bangin' Cutie: Do you two know each other? (refering to the black guy)

I turn her shoulder so that she is facing only me and in a commanding tone:

Tommy: I came here to you. I don't know who he is and it really doesn't matter.

At this point, both the black guy and the other girl became spectators in my interaction. He's basically losing steam in his and can't hold his girl so he's watching me a bit.

I basically put my hands on the shoulder of my girl as I turn her 180 as I am walking so that I stay in front of her and her friend and the black guy are behind her (BLP bitches!) and we continue our conversation.

The other guy loses his girl and ejects. The other hottie didn't interrupt me at all.

Bangin' Cutie: My boyfriend is coming to pick me up now
Tommy: You can't get into that car.
Bangin' Cutie: Why not?
Tommy: Because we haven't fallin' in love yet
Bangin' Cutie: What if I'm already in love?
Tommy: I can wait..... I have about 10 seconds.
Bangin' Cutie: Haha....

That's about it. Her ride comes and she's gone. Oh well

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Things I did well:
1) BLP
2) Kept a fun and flirty vibe during the B phase
3) Pushed beyond the boyfriend crap

Things I could have done better:
1) Approach earlier